To say I’m heartbroken about the tragedy in Uvalde, Texas, betrays my limitations as a writer. There are more-powerful words to convey the emotions I’m feeling—we’re likely all feeling. But I want to cut to the chase: I’m writing to share resources that I hope will be helpful if and when your children turn to you, their trusted adults, with hard questions. Links are below. As always, you can reach me at andrea@time.com.
Best, Andrea
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In this recent article for adults, we ask experts Linda Drozdowicz and Erlanger Turner to share their approaches to talking to kids about distressing news.
The “TIME for Kids Guide to Teaching Tough Topics” offers advice on helping kids handle their feelings if the news is upsetting. It looks at how kids can help stop cycles of anger and misunderstanding, and includes links to additional resources.
Be proactive about prompting kids to care for their mental health during uncertain times. “Pay attention to how you feel. Connect with people you love. Talk to a trusted adult.” This mental health tip sheet for kids invites reflection and open communication.
Common Sense Media has age-based tips for helping elementary and middle school kids understand troubling news events.
Youth.gov lists federal resources for helping young people cope after a school shooting. And the American School Counselor Association’s guide to helping students after a school shooting includes advice such as sticking to routines and limiting kids’ exposure to the news.
